Systemic Constellation & Belonging
Ankea Phem, M.S, M.A
Individual & small-group systemic work in Hawai'i and internationally
Relational, Somatic work for Clarity & Integration through Creative Expression
You’ve landed here because your life is full — and beneath it, there's a quiet longing for more ease, freedom or belonging.
My work is for those who are functioning well in many areas of life, yet sense there is a deeper layer ready to be seen, integrated, or realigned.
You’ve built a meaningful life, career, or family — and feel ready for deeper clarity
You are capable, thoughtful and often the one others rely on
You notice subtle relational or emotional patterns that don’t fully shift through insight alone
Something in life — a transition, challenge, or unexpected moment — has opened deeper questions
You sense a quiet disconnection from yourself, your place, or your lineage and want to restore a felt sense of belonging
You’ve heard about constellation work and feel an inner pull toward exploring what may be asking to be seen
Systemic Constellation
When patterns repeat, relationships strain or something feels “stuck” despite your best efforts, systemic constellation work offers a way to see what’s been hidden — and restore movement.
How We Work Together
This work unfolds in stages, each one supporting clarity, depth and embodiment.
Individual Systemic Family Constellation with Ankea is offered as a guided, one-on-one process that unfolds in 3 stages:
Orientation
& Attunement
Initial Session
A gentle first session to explore what’s present and what’s calling for attention.
We clarify your intention, get oriented to the constellation process, and sense together what type of work would be most supportive right now.
Systemic Inquiry
One-on-One Session
A private process, with or without painting, guided by what emerges and oriented toward family dynamics, relational patterns, or inner movements seeking acknowledgment or integration.
The work unfolds slowly and respectfully, guided by what shows itself rather than forcing outcomes. No prior experience is needed.
Integration & Embodiment
Integration and follow-up
Time and space to integrate what emerged through reflection, conversation, or creative expression such as paint, writing or song.
This step supports insight settling into the body and everyday life, helping the experience become something you can carry forward.
Who Am I
International Development & Mental Health Specialist
Systemic & Relational Work
For two decades, I’ve worked internationally in development, mental health and organizational consulting — supporting complex projects across cultures and systems. I integrate systemic constellation work as a certified advanced constellation practitioner.
I’m also a wife and a mother of two — someone who knows what it’s like to live a capable, demanding life while quietly losing touch with herself and questioning where she belongs.
This work didn’t come from stepping away from reality. It emerged from living fully within it — from knowing the tension between giving and receiving, pushing through and letting go, doing and truly being.
Nearly a decade ago, after a personal session with Mark Wolynn, my life shifted in profound ways. Through understanding how my heritage & family history shape unconscious patterns, a deeper, freer version of myself began to emerge.
Constellation Work, coupled with conscious breathing, became my most meaningful form of self-care — a way of restoring perspective, order & quiet awareness to calm my nervous system.
Alongside this, a painting process emerged as a way to support integration and embodiment following constellation work — a practice I now share with those who feel drawn to this form of integration. -> Learn about Paint & Pour
I don’t approach this work as teaching or therapy. I walk beside — holding space that allows insight, ease and clarity to arise from within, without force, while continuing to learn and be shaped by life myself.
Painting by Ankea, May 2025
Testimonials
"Ankea’s work is truly
beautiful — intuitive, grounded and creative. Her ability to relate and understand without judgment while staying attuned throughout the process, impressed me deeply. Through her support, she helped me heal a physical complaint. I recommend her work to anyone who is ready to make a shift in their lives".
— Ruta, Constellation Facilitator, Latvia
"The constellation work allowed me to process a forgotten loss with a depth and clarity I hadn’t reached before. The experience felt grounded, respectful and continues to unfold long after the session".
— Secil, Artist, United Kingdom
“Working with Ankea was genuinely life-changing. She held the session with clarity and steadiness, staying focused on the most essential family dynamic rather than getting pulled into side issues. The constellation brought deep healing around my mother and early family history, and the integration practices she shared helped that healing continue afterwards. Since then, my relationships — especially with my son — and my life overall have shifted in tangible, lasting ways.”
— Kristen G, Educator, Hawaii
Collaborations & Past Events
To fully experience the online workshop, you may want to have:
• Drawing paper
• Colored pencils or markers
• 3–5 small objects (stones, jewelry, figurines, or everyday items)
Access the recording
The recording is available for a limited time. You’re invited to not just watch, but to actively move through the exercises as you go, allowing your own experience to unfold.
👉 Sign up and access here: https://sched.co/2JYZX
Invited facilitator and contributor in international gatherings focused on healing, leadership and systemic work.
Emerging Voices!
Online Workshop · International
Saturday, March 27, 2026
9:00–11:00 AM (Hawaii) · 20:00–22:00 CET
This workshop was part of the Emerging Voices Summit, which brought together 300+ participants globally. Within this space, 29 participants joined this live experiential session from across Mexico, the United States and Europe and other parts of the world.
If you weren’t able to join live, you are still welcome to access the recording (available for a limited time) and move through the experience at your own pace.
In this workshop, participants explore how simple creative processes can open a doorway to perceiving something deeper.
Through an intuitive and abstract exercise, you are invited to allow images, sensations, and associations to emerge while holding a personal question or theme.
This approach offers a grounded and accessible way to engage with systemic principles—gently stepping out of the thinking mind and into a more felt, intuitive experience.
The workshop also includes a live constellation using this approach, offering a deeper glimpse into how these processes can unfold in a group setting.
You are invited to engage in the way that feels right for you—whether actively participating or simply observing.
FAQs
Find answers to commonly asked questions for Constellation Work.
What is the difference between Constellation Work and Systemic Family Constellations?
(Systemic) Constellation Work is a shortened term for Systemic Family Constellation. It is a method rooted in ancient Zulu tribal wisdom and later introduced to the West by psychotherapist Bert Hellinger. It explores how family history, relationships and inherited patterns continue to shape our lives — often beyond conscious awareness. This work integrates insights from family systems theory, phenomenology and cross-cultural observation.
While the method has evolved over time, the core principle remains: when hidden relational dynamics are acknowledged, systems can naturally reorganize.
How does a session work?
In individual sessions, we use objects, figures, simple markers or visualization to represent people, inner parts, or elements of a system. These representations are placed in relation to one another, allowing patterns to become visible — often without needing to analyze or explain them intellectually.
Information arises through:
Spatial relationships
Bodily sensations
Emotional responses
Shifts in perception
The process unfolds slowly and respectfully, guided by what shows itself rather than by interpretation or diagnosis.
How is this different from coaching or traditional therapy?
Constellation work is not coaching, and it is not talk therapy.
Coaching primarily works with goals, mindset, and conscious behavior.
Traditional therapy often focuses on narrative, history, and processing.
Constellation work engages the unconscious and relational field, where many patterns originate. Because it does not rely solely on insight or effort, changes can sometimes occur more quickly — though outcomes are never forced or guaranteed.
Why can constellation work feel impactful even in a short time?
Much of our behavior is guided by unconscious patterns shaped by family history, early attachment, and even epigenetic inheritance — the way experiences are passed across generations through biology and relational imprinting.
By bringing awareness to these deeper layers, constellation work can create shifts without needing to “fix” or analyze the problem extensively.
How long does a session last?
An assessment session takes up to one hour. An individual constellation session can last 2-3 hours, allowing time to arrive, explore and integrate what emerges.
Do I need prior experience or preparation?
No prior experience is needed. You do not need prior knowledge of constellation work — a quiet sense that something wants attention, along with openness to explore it, is enough. We begin with on orientation session to find out what type of work would be most supportive for you right now.
What is the investment for Individual Constellation sessions?
Orientation Session — $50 (30 minutes to 1 hour)
A first conversation to explore what is bringing you, clarify your intention, and sense whether this work may be supportive at this time.
Constellation Session — $150 (up to 2 hours)
A one-on-one systemic constellation session exploring relational, family, or ancestral dynamics that may be shaping current patterns.
Integration Session — $75 (1 hour)
A follow-up session supporting the integration of insights through reflection, somatic awareness, or creative practices.
What is the investment for Group Constellation Gatherings?
Constellation work can also be experienced in a group setting, either online or in person. Participants may join as a focus client (receiving a constellation) or as a representative.
In-Person Constellation Circle (Kailua-Kona)
Focus Client: $75
Representative: $25
Online Constellation Circle
Focus Client: $75
Representative / Observer: Free
Space for focus clients is limited and reserved in advance.
Is this therapy or covered by insurance?
No. This work is not traditional psychotherapy and insurance is not accepted. All services are self-pay and experiential.
What is your cancellation policy?
Because sessions are reserved and prepared in advance, 24–48 hours’ notice is requested for cancellations or rescheduling. Late cancellations may be charged in full, except in cases of emergency.
How do I know if this work is right for me?
If you’re unsure, an initial assessment session can help clarify whether constellation work — and which approach — is appropriate for you at this time.
You’re also welcome to reach out with questions before booking or join the monthly online circle to learn more about this work with others.
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