
My name is Ankéarâth, Ankea for short.
I was born on a Tuesday in the Netherlands. In Cambodian language, my name means “Gem on Tuesday,” a reference to the Triple Gem — awareness, community and awakening — values that have quietly guided me long before they became conscious choices.
Growing up across cultures taught me early that who we are is deeply shaped by relationship and heritage and the systems we belong to.
For two decades, I have worked internationally in development, mental health and organizational consulting, supporting individuals and teams across cultures, systems and transitions — stepping into the gift of being a bridge.
Alongside this work, I am a certified advanced practitioner of Systemic Family Constellations and a lifelong student of embodied practices. I integrate constellation principles both in my organizational consulting and in my individual work, where insight arises not through analysis alone, but through awareness, presence and experience.
Today, I offer this work from Hawai‘i and internationally — holding spaces that are thoughtful, grounded and quietly transformative.
I don’t approach this work as teaching or therapy. I walk alongside — continuing to learn, listen and grow, just as the people I work with do.
Academic & Professional
MS in Social Geography
MA in Advanced Development Studies
Community Mental Health Practitioner in Hawai‘i (in various local non-profits with registered NPI #)
Consulting experience with ADB and Oxfam across Southeast Asia
Proficient in five languages
Systemic Constellation Training
IFSC International Advanced Certification Training
International accredition and advanced training with well-known, first-generation practitioners who trained directly with Bert Hellinger.
In-person facilitation training with Mark Wolynn ("It Didn't Start With You")
Constellation Intensive sessions with Francesca Mason Boring (Constellations & The Creative Process)
Meditation & Somatic Practices
20+ years of Vipassana meditation (100+ days in silent retreat)
Certified Breath of Life Holistic Breathwork Facilitator, Hawaii
Studied with Norman Allen and in-person 200+ hour Ashtanga Yoga Teacher Certification, Paris
One thing I'm often told is that I have a genuine love of people — being with them, listening and noticing what’s alive beneath the surface. For me, it’s a quiet passion and an honor — a way of being in service to others.
A few things that shape how I live and work
Cooking has always been about love and connection for me. I grew up in a home where food was how care was expressed — my parents insisted on feeding everyone, including my friends, something I found deeply embarrassing as a teenager but deeply meaningful as an adult.
I love rollerskating, and regularly gather with a small group where play and high-intensity movement meet on wheels.
I’m a mother of two — a 14-year-old son and an 11-year-old daughter — who continually teach me about presence, patience and humility.
My husband and I have walked through life’s seasons and challenges together for over two decades, rooted in commitment and ongoing growth. Our relationship continues to be one of my most meaningful spaces for personal development and healing.
I believe Presence is another word for Love—that it lives at the Heart of Life, reminding us that we are far more connected than we often remember.

For organizational and leadership work, I also collaborate with my partner, Caleb Milliken, through our corporate practice.
"My last constellation session within a group setting, was extraordinarily well led by Ankea. I connected with a part of myself that was trapped and manifested through segments of my disturbing recurring dreams. Ankea called the appropriate support into the space with extremely effectively selected representatives and key elements in my situation. She then masterfully guided them to the desired outcome. For me, this was of the utmost importance and highly effective; she managed to get all the necessary information for me to connect and integrate an important part of myself. I am extremely happy with her work and would definitely recommend her to others with the highest rating in all areas of constellation guidance".
—Tanja, Psychologist, Slovenia
"In my one-to-one session online, I felt deeply comfortable and open from the beginning. The way Ankea held space, fostered a strong sense of trust, professionalism, and safety. I appreciated her calm grounding and gentle guidance throughout, which supported real understanding to emerge without pressure. The approach felt steady, respectful, and effective".
— Keely, Teacher & Facilitator, USA
“After my session with Ankea, I felt a deep softness and tenderness — a sense of coming home to myself. Something opened that felt both vast and centered, as if new horizons appeared while I remained rooted within. Her presence, focus, and embodied strength created a space of love and wisdom that continues to unfold in my life.”
— Snježena, Mother & Entrepreneur, Croatia
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